Improve Your Negotiation Skills By Discovering The 1 Issue That Separates The Novice From The Professional Negotiator In The Negotiation Game

There is 1 central idea, one key factor that is very important to understand.

Get this right and you will be rewarded with profitable, gratifying and long term relationships in which price is not the only factor. If you fail to get this right, you will battle with sub optimal business relationships and you will likely end up bartering about price in almost all of your negotiations.

The key element is understanding the interests of your counterpart in your negotiations; this is an important element taught in negotiation training.

Most of us have a good understanding of our own objectives, needs and desires. When we negotiate with others, we usually begin with trying to persuade them of our opinion. We think it makes sense to us, surely it must make sense to anyone that is reasonable. The problem with this method is that it completely ignores the objectives, needs and desires of our counterparts.

What good is it trying to persuade someone to do anything that they don't believe would be in alignment with their objectives, beliefs and desires?

You will never convince anybody to agree with you by disagreeing with them, quite the reverse will happen. Because you tell someone that they are incorrect and you are the one that is correct, you will compel them to defend their position rather than listen to yours. Nobody likes to be told that they are wrong and if you tell someone that they are incorrect it will become very important for them to defend their position because their personal integrity is on the line.

It is rare to achieve agreement with someone after you have told them that they are wrong, you have also managed to paint yourself into a corner. If it was important for you to reach consensus and you loose the argument, then you will have to sacrifice your own integrity by departing from your 'correct' stance to embrace the argument of the other side.

If you want to reach agreement the easy way rather than have your negotiations spiral into a positional argument, here's what I suggest that you should do:

Start by asking some questions, the best of which you can ask will be questions designed to uncover the interests behind the positions that the other side have assumed in the negotiation. Open questions are the best kind of questions to expose the interest or motivators that reinforce your counterpart's positions.

A good question to can ask and at the same time endorsing your negotiation skills: Why are you negotiating with me / my organisation?

This is quite possibly the best question to ask at the beginning of a negotiation. Follow this question by asking the other side to expand on and to rank the reasons offered in response to your questions. Then you will have a prioritised list of their key interests.

Sample Interests:
- Individual: Security, Acknowledgment and Control
- Organisation: Profit, Risk Avoidance and Strategic Fit (Some important elements you would have learned in purchasing training)

Once you have an understanding of your counterparts' key interests it is a good idea to share your own interests. Once all the parties to the negotiation have revealed their interests it will be much easier to recognise the areas of common ground and then it is useful to present your argument in the context of how it would meet their interests. This way, you will not have to convince the other side that your argument is correct; you will only have to demonstrate that your suggested course of action would satisfy their interests.

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