Learn How To Meet Gals
Guys question me about " picking up women " and "how to relate to women " and similar topics all the time .
Nevertheless, honestly, the best answer for all of these type of questions is "experience."
But naturally the next question is how do you get experience if you don't know how to meet women?
You do it by meeting women and approaching women any way you can in large droves. It is called serial dating. And when I composed my first book "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year" it caused a little controversy.
To begin with, let me explain that I am very big on monogamy and have never cheated on a wife or girlfriend, but when I am between important relationships I am equally big on multiple or serial dating.
Now I would be the first one to affirm that a person who "multiple"¯ or "serial"¯ dates with no intention of ever doing anything else would have at least some major "relating"¯ issues.
However, serial and multiple dating is not only not necessarily a bad thing, if done with a purpose to learn about the opposite sex, it is a good thing. By heavy and continual interaction with the opposite sex we can learn about both the opposite sex and about ourselves.
What do you think most parents told their teenage sons and daughters?
They said: "Don't get serious with one person, you need to date and meet a lot of girls/guys."¯
It may seem immature, but this teenage advice is what most adults who are dating need to remember.
First of all, most adults never followed their parent's recommendation and dated lots of people. Most people seem to have a pattern of hooking up with the first acceptable¯ person who shows them some real interest.
Unfortunately, there is a difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also unfortunately most people normally continue this routine of hooking up with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into maturity.
We call this "compromising"¯ or "settling"¯ and ultimately it leads to dissatisfaction in relationships, and a failure to understand the opposite sex.
Most of us didn't realize when we were teenagers that there are all sorts of people in the world - different personalities, different likes and dislikes. We didn't realize that if we met enough people we actually could meet someone who was exactly right for us.
Most of us didn't even examine our own nature and what what would be a good match for us. We based our ideas of what a good match was off of television and movies and magazines. You see most of us just lacked experience with the opposite sex.
The cure is simple. When you date and meet lots of people, sooner or later, you figure it out for yourself. It's a natural process. You get comfortable with people, you realize that everyone is different, and that different types of people like different types of people. Eventually you figure out what kind of person you are and what kind of people you get along with best.
And believe it or not, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out there and got a lot of experience.
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